Everyone wants a successful career, but this is not an overnight process. You are responsible of what you want to be in your life. There will be a lot of hindrances, sure, before achieving your goal. But sometimes the doubt inside your head will choose the "mediocre" kind of success.
You settle for less and be afraid to try again. Failure is part of growing up; failure is part of success. There is no such thing like "instant" success. It is like a process involving a "chain reaction" - what are you doing now will make a big impact in your future.
But what are the things that are really holding you back to improve, try again, and achieve your goals? An article from University Herald points out the 7 common mistakes that are holding you back.
Not dreaming big enough
All of us have dreams, of course. But the question, is it big enough? Dreams will be the result of your reality in the future, it is intangible and no one can take it away from you. Do not listen to those who do not believe in you. Their opinion will never matter. If you have a big dream, that is more than enough to listen to yourself.
Expecting instant success
Success is not a food or thing that you can buy in a convenience store. It is earned by working hard. Don't think too much if you fail today, just breathe and try again. Failure makes you stronger.
Lack of accountability to oneself
Being responsible in everything that you do in your life is very important. There are some instances in your life that you cannot control. But if you are responsible the result will always be good.
Little faith in one's abilities
Sometimes, you are losing your faith because things does not happen in a way that you wanted it to be. You keep on asking yourself, "Am I good enough?" Of course you are. Never mind the failure, everyone encounters it once in their life. You just need to believe in yourself.
Under-commitment
Exert an effort in everything that you do. Settling for less means receiving less. Do not expect to get the best result if you put little effort in it.
Going With the wrong crowd
Be with the people who will help you to grow. Do not join the crowd who thinks you cannot do anything. Prove to them that you are more than of what they think about you.
Selective change
When you change your goals, you also need to change your plan.
Even though these are probably the things that are holding you back, there are also ways to be successful in life. Per one of the article from Success, people need to develop the 5 habits to become successful. These steps include:
1. Plan your day the night before.
2. Read books; be inspired.
3. Prioritize your health.
4. Avoid distractions. Distractions will lead you nowhere.
5. Enjoy your life.
